Lets not forget the word "BIMBO" as well.
Lorenzo all I am asking for is a simple apology.
I was shocked to read the sentence you had written in Ex pats
I was shocked as I had been being kidded all along that you were an educated and polite kind person?
It is a personal attack on white people, and myself as well.
I know and my socail environment know as well as God also that those personal words of attack and you were not generalizing as
I was saying in ex pats but i am sure it sounds like it was taken wrong; All foreign men who marry and complain to me that the wives families expect the financial support out of his pockets as well.
I should be more carefull when wording things from persons.
My Filipino friends at home in the states told me str8 up that they came from poor families and married to have a better life then what Philippines had to offer.
Most my Filipino friends were beaten and abused by American men and later disregarded.
I am really working on trying to straighten out my grammar as I also at times have a hard time understanding what I said myself?
Aaaaaaaaack! It comes out as if backwords.
I do not like saying bad things about persons, but I am fair in letting others know what are being said.
Many persons have feelings that are not always positive but they are way to shy to say how they really think out loud.
Sometimes its hard to read a persons mind but the guys are to friendly to say it to their wives in person.
Instead we (foreigners) meet at the corner table in BQ breadbasket and compare our notes. I talk about media events and they talk to me like I am DEAR ABBEY.
They whine and grind about their expenses and what not about the culture here comparing it to back home.
Other people can hear what they say I tell them to lower their voices as I look around to see who has been hurt from overhearing the conversation.
I am sort of the Dear Abbey, and sergeant of Arms in maintaining peace and harmony in our group.
Some times if they keep on talking bad about their Filipino wives, I eventually leave the table and find another one to sit at.
My husband is Pinoy' and an OFW and I am a surrogate mother of four kids here.
I do not know of any other foreign woman living here and taking care of their step Filipino kids?
I also will leave the table if the husbands are wound up about their wives and her family as I do not want my kids to hear their race being badly talked about.
Most f what i said in EXPATS is not words from my lips but from others just so you would know whats going on and and whats being said as well.
I am sorry personally if it had hurt anyone of you.
That is not what it was intended for.
As I have always said I love all kinds of people.
Why else am I here taking care of y husbands kids and I am not raised in this culture.
Marry for love, responsibility, and care, not for the material things.
I am an old fashioned gal and always have been.
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