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Permit me to add this: We cannot be angry and hostile with a brother or sister and at the same time be at PEACE with the Lord.
Our relationships with other people will suffer. For example, a marriage will not thrive if one or both spouses become angry and refuse to address the problem. One will develop a critical spirit. Bitter people often become judgmental in an effort to justify their anger. One will lack peace. Hostility makes you restless and robs you of joy. Anger leads to emotional isolation. When people get hurt, they often try to protect themselves from further hurt by pushing others away. Anger results in frustration and anxiety.
Our unrighteous anger towards our brothers and sisters affects the Lord. First, it grieves His heart. Hostility does not fit who we are as children of God. Second, it hinders His work.
Those who harbor resentment are often not willing to obey His voice. Third, the Father will not pour out His blessings on an angry person.
Anger and deep-seeted bitterness is used by the devil to make us deaf and numb to the voice of God. And God always reminds us to forgive, to forgive. As much as He forgives us.
This is why we should always pray for comfort and the Grace to forgive and accept God to help us open our hearts.
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