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My Wife Johde had a miscarriage
« on: January 14, 2008, 01:48:53 PM »
Last month, I shared with you brothers and sisters that my wife is bearing our 4th child.

Unfortunately, she had a miscarriage yesterday night 13th of January 2008. The baby you longed to be maninoys/maninays was examined with no heartbeat at 7 weeks and the doctors are forced to do the procedure.

Johde my wife is now at the hospital and recuperating from the anaesthesia. Hope she did not experience anaesthesia awareness.

I am thankful for this wonderful website, to Mike and anticipating your prayers for the quick recovery of Johde.

Today morning, I am thankful to the Creator that I have 3 wonderful kids.

"Live Drama" you witnessed daily here in Tubag Bohol.

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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2008, 02:00:30 PM »
Sir Macks, I'm so sorry about sa nahitabo...
I'm sad about it...
I just hope & pray for Jhode...


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« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2008, 02:02:34 PM »
So sorry to hear that Sir...

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« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2008, 02:36:29 PM »
Dear Macky,

I am so sorry for your loss.  I actually don't know what to say.  When Lumine had a miscarriage, she and her husband were so devastated.  I hope and pray that Johde is not hurting from the procedure and that she's not emotionally devastated by this loss.  We always say that God has reasons for things that are happening in our lives...  My prayers for Johde for her speedy recovery.  God bless you and your family, Macks!

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« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2008, 03:36:40 PM »
 Raymund dear,

sorry, to hear about Johde's miscarriage i dont know how to comfort you for the moment
i pray that everything still go smoothly. wanna hug you both(virtually)
be strong ok? take care!

chat w/ my family yesterday and i told them that Cris"Oki" is in Dampas
hopefully my bro Fred will be able to meet him. till nxt news ;)

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« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2008, 06:24:31 PM »

Kuya Macks,

I'm so sorry to hear your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.



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« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2008, 07:09:15 PM »
My friend Macky,

I have friends who had experienced the same and I had listened to their sorrowful stories and the pain that they went through because of this loss. We hope we could know exactly how much pain you have right now, Macky.

Let's continue to praise our Lord Jesus Christ that your wife Johde is now safe.

We are all here for you, Macky. Don't hesitate to share with us whatever things you wish to let out as we are always ready to listen and comfort you.

We'll always pray for you and your family.

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« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2008, 07:13:50 PM »
this is very sad news kuya macky... i am very sorry to hear this...

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« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2008, 09:26:17 PM »
Sir Macky komusta na si Johde. I read your Pm gahapon sa Taiwan wala lagi nimo na mention bahin niya.
Sorry kaayo sa nahitabo. I will pray for you and your family.

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« Reply #9 on: January 14, 2008, 09:36:32 PM »
I'm so sorry for the miscarriage kuya Macky. I hope that your wifey will be fine very soon. Maybe, it's not yet the right time for both of you to have your 4th child. God knows best for you and your family kuya..Just keep the faith in HIM.

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« Reply #10 on: January 14, 2008, 10:13:50 PM »
Hi Macky,

I fully understand what you're going through. Last year, my wife also had a miscarriage, and the child was supposed to be our fourth. When we found out that she was pregnant, we were initially overwhelmed with anxiety as my wife was already 42 then, our eldest daugter was 14, middle son was 13 and our youngest was 6... As it was an unexpected baby, we also had financial concerns. But just as the initial apprehension had turned into a celebration, with my only son hoping for a younger brother, my wife lost the baby. He cried the most... But even at his young age, he slowly came to understand that God has a reason for everything, including the untoward events that befall us... We just have to trust that He is in control and knows what is best for us.

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« Reply #11 on: January 14, 2008, 10:23:10 PM »
Mr. Ferniz,

I am sorry to read such news, I'll pray for your family. Give my regards to your wife and family. Stay strong, Sir.

You all are in my thoughts.

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« Reply #12 on: January 14, 2008, 10:41:38 PM »
i know exactly how it feels, i lost one  too and almost lost my life going through it. it was an awful experience but everything happens for a reason.

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« Reply #13 on: January 15, 2008, 06:09:20 AM »
Our sincerest thanks to you our friends.

Your prayers gave us the strength.

We somehow have accepted the fate considering my wife is 41 and pregnancy at that age is critical. What we found difficult is finding the right words to explain to our kids, specially my middle child Mark, 7 who is anxious to have a brother playmate. When we came home from the hospital today, we can read a big question mark from their faces.

I am not superstitious but reviewing the event, I found a significance of number 13.

- It happened on 13 Jan.
- I went to the Enternet Cafe to upload a big file in booth 13.
- The examination was 1:00 PM, which is 1300 hrs.

I don't believe in ghost, though I believe that we have a soul. Last night a strange thing happened to my cell phone. It made a 'toot' sound and light come flashing. I checked, batteries are full and no miss calls or messages. It happened several times last night in random intervals. I don't know if I should consider that as a goodby message from my unborn child.

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« Reply #14 on: January 15, 2008, 06:18:47 AM »
hala ka Raymund nanglibaot ako balhibo doh
toot like last beat sa heart monitor huuh

hows Jhode now? mas sakit pa kono na kakuhaan
kysa normal panganak :(

take care mo dha tanan and kisses to the kids :-*

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« Reply #15 on: January 15, 2008, 09:51:09 AM »
So sorry to hear about your loss Sir Macky.

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« Reply #16 on: January 16, 2008, 08:59:29 AM »
hala ka Raymund nanglibaot ako balhibo doh
toot like last beat sa heart monitor huuh

hows Jhode now? mas sakit pa kono na kakuhaan
kysa normal panganak :(

take care mo dha tanan and kisses to the kids :-*

Ako pod!  I am not superstitious either but I felt na ning tindog akong balhibo sa tangkugo...

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« Reply #17 on: January 16, 2008, 09:17:58 AM »
I can't imagine myself to be in your shoes....Take care always... and God bless

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« Reply #18 on: January 16, 2008, 10:08:52 AM »
The baby is another angel to watch over you~
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« Reply #19 on: January 16, 2008, 04:19:23 PM »
I agree with you, Scott!  We had one sister who died in an accident when she was still about to turn 10.  I really and strongly believe she's one of our angels!

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« Reply #20 on: January 16, 2008, 05:47:21 PM »
I agree with you, Scott!  We had one sister who died in an accident when she was still about to turn 10.  I really and strongly believe she's one of our angels!

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« Reply #22 on: January 17, 2008, 11:14:02 AM »
Awww! really Mackz? bag-o pa gani ta nag hisgot ana di ba?

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« Reply #23 on: February 10, 2008, 11:19:42 PM »
Kuya Macks, mao pa lang jud pagkabasa nako ani.. So sorry to hear about what happen of your baby. Hope your wife is alright.

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« Reply #24 on: February 11, 2008, 12:24:10 AM »
Daddy Macky,

I've just read about what happened...
I feel sorry for the loss.




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« Reply #25 on: February 11, 2008, 01:45:38 AM »


Macky,

Naghilumhilum raman ka or maybe I was not so sensitive lately kay busy kaayo mao nga wala ko kahibalo, karon ra jud bisan nagmeeting ta last Friday.

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« Reply #26 on: February 11, 2008, 07:29:02 AM »
Sir Macky sorry to hear about your loss, makafeel jud ko sa gibati ninyo karon kay naagian na nako last 2005, yet dili pa jud mawala sa ahong hunahuna, ilabi na jud ug makita nako ang bata nga kaedad atong akong nakuha.  5 weeks na unta to, kaso lang wala man madevelop ang heart so gi D&C jud ko.  gableeding man ko, maong gida ko sa hospital, pag ultrasound kay wala man jud heartbeat, ako pang giingnan ang doctor basin ug nasayop llang ang ultrasound.  gidad an jud kog 4 kabook doctors sa ahong gihigdaan para iconfirm nga wala jud heart ang bata, aron lang motoo ko kay pwerti man nahong hilak.  aduna na unta ko'y fil am pero wala man itugot.  basin sa sunod na pod. 

Bitaw, sorry jud kaayo.  Naa'y laing plano ang Ginoo para ninyong managtiayon.  Please yield everything to HIM.

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« Reply #27 on: February 14, 2008, 07:12:47 AM »
Last month, I shared with you brothers and sisters that my wife is bearing our 4th child.

Unfortunately, she had a miscarriage yesterday night 13th of January 2008. The baby you longed to be maninoys/maninays was examined with no heartbeat at 7 weeks and the doctors are forced to do the procedure.

Johde my wife is now at the hospital and recuperating from the anaesthesia. Hope she did not experience anaesthesia awareness.

I am thankful for this wonderful website, to Mike and anticipating your prayers for the quick recovery of Johde.

Today morning, I am thankful to the Creator that I have 3 wonderful kids.

"Live Drama" you witnessed daily here in Tubag Bohol.

Good day folks.

Macky Ferniz

Karon pa nako ni nabasa.

I'm sorry Sir Macky.

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« Reply #28 on: March 14, 2008, 05:19:25 AM »
As I am typing right now, my phone once again made a toot sound and light is flashing for 5-10 minutes. I checked my phone and nothing seems wrong.

I remembered that today is the 13th of the month and the 2nd anniverssary of my wife's miscarriage.

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« Reply #29 on: March 14, 2008, 10:00:34 AM »
Mr.Ferniz, so sorry to hear gyud sa imong loss gyud.
It looks like you don't like number 13.



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« Reply #30 on: November 28, 2009, 04:54:06 PM »
Hi Mr. Ferniz, I'm sorry to hear about your loss.  I hope your beloved is now ok.  You don't know me, but I'm just curious when  I was browsing through & saw your last name.  It reminds me of my childhood friends with your last name.  I'm just wondering if you are related to Juliet & Marisol Ferniz.  We grew up together.  If you do, please extend my regards to them.  Thanks.

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