What amazes me is the people here gloat about how proud they are to be a native from here? but, they marry outside their race to get away from the place?
So they are not that proud after all?
Most marry for this one $$$$$ and are hoping for greener pastures from the other side of the fence with their new husband.
Most women who get married here to foreigners have a high rate of divorce after they have a new country citizenship and remarry again in the same country.
Allot of foreigner men come up to me and we laugh together as they tell me how unfaithful their being to their Philippine wives here.
The reason for it is because they are having a boring time here compared to the fast paced life back home.
The Philippine wife is fine with it for me "No Way"!
The foreign husband gets here and he pays for everyone in her family and it is not practiced in our place to get married and be the bread winner for Uncle Joe, Aunt sue, cousin Billy Bob, and the family pet pig.
I am telling you Philippine ladies if you want to lose your foreigner man just keep on washing his pocket book out supporting people he barely knows in your family.
It upsets them but they are too nice to say anything to you about it. So if your happy using a foreigner husband as an ATM machine then I guess it makes sense why you ladies allow these guys to be unfaithful towards you because you hold the legal banking card!
I also notice the Philippine woman married to a Westerner or other white foreigner man here is also changing her style of dress from conservative to non conservative?
She wears more richer threads then a Philippine woman married to her own native race.
I will not change for anyone I do not care what the style of the country is I will respect but not change it or myself
I would never marry to change my status in fact poor men have character and are rich in heart and rich men have everything and they never seem content!
JUST BE YOURSELF AND ACCEPT YOU FOR
HOW YOU REALLY ARE DO NOT DO IT FOR OTHERS DO IT FOR YOURSELF PEOPLE!)
Hello! It seems you are frustrated...I might agree with some of your ideas...but I have to remind you...
not all people are the same. As what you've typed... poor and rich men, I think this applies also to ladies
mostly on the other way. It's always what the demand is...You need me...I need you...and then the business is on.